How to start cross stitch — a complete beginner's guide

Cross stitch is one of the easiest needlecrafts to learn. Every stitch is the same little X, and a chart tells you exactly where each one goes. This guide takes you from an empty bag of supplies to your first finished rows, with the habits that make work look neat from the start.

Key takeaways

  • Start with 14-count Aida, two strands of floss and a size 24 tapestry needle in a 5–6 inch hoop.
  • Begin in the centre of both the fabric and the chart, and work one small area at a time.
  • Every stitch is bottom-left to top-right, then bottom-right to top-left. Keep the top legs all facing the same way.
  • No knots: use a loop start or bury the tail under your first stitches.
  • Pick a small first design: most people stitch 100–200 stitches an hour, so a 600-stitch motif is a few evenings.
On this page
  1. What you need
  2. Choose a first pattern
  3. Prepare the fabric
  4. Making the stitch
  5. Starting and finishing without knots
  6. Reading the chart
  7. How long it takes
  8. Fixing mistakes
  9. Beginner habits worth keeping

What you need

You need only a few inexpensive things to start.

ItemWhat to buy for a first projectWhy
Fabric14-count Aida in white or creamClear holes, firm weave, easy to count
ThreadSix-strand embroidery cotton (floss) in the colours on the pattern keyDMC and Anchor both sell 8 m skeins
NeedleBlunt tapestry needle, size 24 (some prefer 26)Slips through the holes without splitting the fabric
Hoop5 or 6 inch embroidery hoopKeeps the fabric taut for even stitches
ScissorsSmall sharp embroidery scissorsClean cuts close to the work
PatternA small chart with a colour keyA finished first piece builds confidence

Aida is a cotton fabric woven into a grid of squares with a hole at each corner. The number in its name is the count: 14-count has 14 squares to the inch. Lower counts have bigger squares; the fabric counts guide compares them.

Floss comes in skeins of six thin strands. You separate the number you need, usually two on 14-count. Pull strands out one at a time, holding the rest, then put them back together; pulling two at once is a recipe for a knot.

Choose a first pattern

Pick something small with a handful of colours and few single stitches dotted around. Here are the easiest designs in our free library:

PatternSizeColoursStitchesTime
Cherries cross stitch · Beginner 15 × 13 6 71 20 min–40 min
Anchor cross stitch · Beginner 21 × 18 2 104 30 min–1 h
Dragonfly cross stitch · Beginner 26 × 30 4 111 30 min–1 h
Holly sprig cross stitch · Beginner 26 × 22 4 114 30 min–1 h
Candy corn cross stitch · Beginner 13 × 15 4 115 30 min–1 h
Candy cane cross stitch · Beginner 17 × 19 3 119 40 min–1 h
LOVE with heart cross stitch · Beginner 31 × 21 2 120 40 min–1 h
Four-leaf clover cross stitch · Beginner 21 × 22 3 126 40 min–1.5 h
The easiest designs in our free library, smallest first. Time assumes 100–200 stitches an hour, a typical range for relaxed stitching; time yourself for an hour to get your own rate.

Or turn your own drawing, photo or name into a pattern with the pattern maker or the text tool, keeping it under about 60 × 60 stitches and 10 colours for a first piece.

Prepare the fabric

  1. Cut the fabric with about 3 inches (7.5 cm) of border around the design, so it fits a hoop and can be framed later.
  2. Stop fraying by folding masking tape over the edges or running a zigzag stitch around them.
  3. Find the centre: fold the fabric in half each way and crease it lightly, or mark it with a pin. Most charts mark the centre with arrows on the edges.
  4. Put it in the hoop: loosen the screw, lay the fabric over the inner ring with the centre roughly in the middle, press the outer ring on and tighten until the fabric is drum-tight. Keep the grid straight as you tighten.

Making the stitch

A cross stitch is two diagonal stitches over one square of Aida. The holes are numbered in the order you use them:

One cross stitch One square of Aida with its four corner holes numbered. Bring the needle up at 1 (bottom left), down at 2 (top right), up at 3 (bottom right) and down at 4 (top left). 1234

1 up · 2 down · 3 up · 4 down

A row worked the Danish way Five squares in a row. First all the bottom half stitches are worked from left to right, then the row is crossed back from right to left, so every top stitch faces the same way.

Half stitches →, then cross back ←

Left: one cross, worked 1 up, 2 down, 3 up, 4 down. Right: a row worked the Danish way, half stitches from left to right, then back across with the top stitches.
  1. Bring the needle up from the back through the bottom-left hole (1).
  2. Take it down through the top-right hole (2). That is the first half, or bottom stitch.
  3. Come up through the bottom-right hole (3).
  4. Go down through the top-left hole (4). That is the top stitch, completing the X.

Pull each stitch snug so it lies flat, but not so tight that the holes distort. The direction itself does not matter, but every top stitch on the piece must cross the same way; mixed directions are the single most visible beginner mistake.

Rows: the English and Danish methods

There are two ways to work a group of stitches, and both are correct:

MethodHowBest for
EnglishComplete each cross before moving to the nextScattered stitches, frequent colour changes
DanishWork a row of half stitches, then come back crossing themRows and blocks of one colour

The Danish method is quicker in solid areas and makes it easy to keep every top stitch the same way. Use whichever feels natural, and switch between them as the pattern demands.

Starting and finishing without knots

Loop start (for an even number of strands): cut one strand twice as long as you need, fold it in half and thread the two cut ends through the needle. Come up from the back for your first half stitch, leaving the loop at the back; go down, and pass the needle through the loop before pulling it snug. The thread is now anchored with nothing to trim.

Tail start: leave a 1 inch (2–3 cm) tail at the back and hold it there so your first few stitches cover it.

Finishing: on the back, run the needle under four or five stitches of the same colour and trim the thread close. Avoid finishing under a much lighter colour, where a dark tail can show through.

Thread length: cut about 18 inches (45 cm), roughly fingertip to elbow. Longer threads tangle and wear thin; let the needle dangle and spin every few stitches to untwist the floss.

Reading the chart

Each square on the chart is one stitch, and each symbol or colour matches an entry in the key. Bold lines every ten squares help you count. Work one colour at a time in a small area, crossing off stitches as you go. The chart reading guide explains symbols, fractional stitches and backstitch, and the stitch tracker lets you mark stitches on a phone or tablet instead of on paper.

How long it takes

Most people stitch somewhere around 100 to 200 stitches an hour once they have the rhythm, depending on the count, the number of colour changes and how often they stop to check the chart. Big blocks of one colour go faster than confetti-like scattered stitches. The best estimate is your own: stitch for an hour, count the stitches and divide the pattern’s total by that number.

Fixing mistakes

ProblemFix
Wrong colour or squareSlide the blunt needle under the stitch from the front, lift and pull it out; cut only if there are many stitches, using sharp scissors from the back
Thread twisting and knottingLet the needle hang and spin; use shorter lengths
Fabric puckeringThe stitches are too tight; ease them and keep the fabric drum-tight in the hoop
Fabric showing between stitchesAdd a strand, or keep an even tension on both legs
Top stitches facing different waysUnpick the odd ones; check direction at the start of each session
Lost countCount from the nearest bold ten-line, or from a stitch you know is right

Beginner habits worth keeping

  • Don’t carry thread more than three or four squares (about 6 mm on 14-count) across the back; it shows through, especially on light fabric. Finish and restart instead.
  • Take the fabric out of the hoop when you stop for the day, so it does not crease.
  • Wash your hands before stitching, especially on light fabric.
  • Park your needle in the margin, never in the stitched area, so it does not leave a mark.
  • Keep the thread labels with each colour; once off the band, many shades look alike.

When the stitching is done, the hoop finishing guide and the washing and pressing guide take you through the last steps.

Sources

Facts in this guide were checked against these sources on 29 October 2026. Figures marked as our own data were calculated with the same code that runs our tools.

  1. Learn to cross stitch— Cross Stitched
  2. The Danish method in cross stitch— The Art of Stitch
  3. How long does cross stitch take?— Cross Stitched
  4. Aida fabric count explained— Stitcher

Frequently asked questions

How many strands of floss should I use?

On 14-count Aida, two strands of six-strand cotton for cross stitches and one for backstitch is the usual choice. Use about three strands on 11-count and one or two on 18-count.

Do I need a hoop?

It is not essential, but a hoop or small frame keeps the fabric taut, which makes stitches more even and prevents puckering. A 5 or 6 inch hoop suits most first projects. Take the work out of the hoop when you stop so it does not leave a crease.

Should I tie a knot at the start?

No. Knots make lumps under framed work and can pull through the fabric. Use the loop start or hold a tail under the first few stitches instead.

Which way should the top stitches face?

It does not matter which way, as long as every top stitch on the piece crosses in the same direction. Consistency is what makes cross stitch look neat.

How long does a beginner pattern take?

Most people stitch roughly 100 to 200 stitches an hour once they have the rhythm, so a 600-stitch motif is three to six hours. Time yourself for an hour on your first project to get your own rate.

How long should each length of thread be?

About 18 inches (45 cm), or roughly the distance from your fingertips to your elbow. Longer threads tangle and wear thin as they pass through the fabric again and again.

What is the difference between the English and Danish methods?

The English method completes each cross before moving to the next. The Danish method works a row of half stitches in one direction and comes back to complete the crosses. Danish suits rows and blocks of one colour; English suits scattered stitches and frequent colour changes. Neither is wrong.

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